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浮気のラインはどこから?「異性と手を繋ぐこと」は男女の認識に差がある!

[これをやったら浮気確定+][これをやったら浮気確定+]

浮気の定義は人それぞれですが、具体的なボーダーラインはどういった行為なのでしょうか?

「これをやったら浮気確定!と思うものを選んでください」という質問への回答が上記のグラフです。

「異性と体の関係になる」は男女とも1位で、明らかに浮気と認識する人が多数です。

女性の2位は「異性と手をつなぐ」でした。男性とは20%以上も差があることから、男性は「手をつなぐ=浮気ではない」、女性は「手をつなぐ=浮気確定」、という大きな認識のズレがあることが分かります。

一方で男性の場合は「異性と二人で出かける」が41.1%で2位ですが、女性は25.8%です。女性に比べて男性の方が「異性と二人で出かける=浮気確定」と思っている割合が多いことが分かります。

自分では浮気でないと思っていても、恋人からすると「それは浮気!」と誤解されるケースもありそうです。好きな相手だからといって認識が同じとは限りません。関係を壊したくないのであれば、浮気の線引きには十分注意した方がよさそうです。

「浮気の定義」に男女の違い!女性は「異性の体に触れること」、男性は「異性に精神的に頼ること」

[手をつなぐ男女+][手をつなぐ男女+]

アンケートで男女に浮気の認識で差があった「異性と手をつなぐ」と「異性と二人で出かける」や、その他特徴的な浮気のボーダーラインをピックアップしました。

【女性:異性と手をつなぐ】

出かけるだけなら特になにも思いませんが、やましい気持ちがあって出かけたり、相手の手に触れたりするのは浮気だと思います。(24歳女性)
別の異性と2人きりで出かけるのは良いと思いますが、手をつなぐ以上のことは浮気だと思います。(23歳女性)
異性と出かけるのはさまざまな理由があるかもしれないので許すことができますが、手をつなぐ以上の行為は下心が丸出しなので浮気だと思っています。(24歳女性)

女性にとって「手をつなぐ」ことは、「体に触れる」という認識のようです。故意でなければ手をつなぐことはないため、キス以前に手をつなぐことが浮気と思う人が多いようです。

【女性:その他の浮気ボーダーライン】

私に紹介できない異性は恋愛対象として見ていると思うので浮気です。逆に風俗は浮気とは捉えません。(26歳女性)
日付を超えるまで二人でいたら浮気だと思う。(22歳女性)
プライベートでわざわざ予定を立てた上で異性と出かけるのは浮気だと思っています。(29歳女性)

様々なボーダーラインがあり、まさに「人それぞれ」だと感じますね。風俗は浮気か浮気ではないのかも、それぞれ見解がありそうです。

【男性:異性と二人で出かける】

彼女が黙って私以外の男性と出かければ、それは浮気だと思います。(28歳男性)
異性と2人で出かけるのは、ちゃんとした理由がないと浮気とみなします。(24歳男性)
自分(彼氏)と行けるのに、彼氏ではなく他の異性の人と行ったら浮気だと思います。(28歳男性)

恋人が自分以外の異性と出かけること自体でな


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